Starting my new life in Germany

Richard (49) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 1064573
Kaiserslautern, Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany
Seeking: Female 35 - 45 living in Ukraine
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Masters Degree
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: No religion
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary

I have to be honest, I am nervous. I am nervous because I am bringing my western courtship "style" to Slavic women. I am nervous; I am not a serial dater. I love monogamous commitment, I love being that special man to a wonderful woman. But I don’t know what the culture is for Slavic women. Do...read more >>

I have to be honest, I am nervous. I am nervous because I am bringing my western courtship "style" to Slavic women. I am nervous; I am not a serial dater. I love monogamous commitment, I love being that special man to a wonderful woman. But I don’t know what the culture is for Slavic women. Does the woman date multiple men, is the man supposed to date multiple women? That’s not who I am, I want to find one amazing women and lavish her with all my time and attention, all my love and dreams. I am going to be me and find that special person. I am nervous because I am afraid of being culturally insensitive and saying the wrong thing inadvertently. I am nervous because giving a woman a dozen red roses in America is a special gesture but to Slavic women any even number of flowers is a bad omen. See it’s easy to make a mistake. I am nervous because when I say I don’t drink I mean I really really don’t, as in never. Not at parties, not at dinner, not a single drop. But men are supposed to drink, so I am nervous that I won’t match that ideal of what a man is supposed to be. I am nervous because I am not Brad Pitt, I am just me. A bit goofy, a bit awkward, quick to smile and love. I am nervous because I am not flashy. I married very young (21), I poured my heart, love, honor and money into my family. I never spent money on jewelry, designer clothes or sports cars for myself. My money went into my family and their joys. Now you have a man that doesn’t enjoy flash or flair, just simple family time. I am nervous because I am not a stylish dresser, in fact I have trouble matching a pair of socks ;) I am comfortable in Jeans and a t-shirt. However I read that Slavic women are insulted if their man doesn’t look stylish. I own multiple suites, I own many khakis and polo’s it’s all part of my work wear. But I enjoy wearing shorts and a t-shirt, I feel free and relaxed. Do I change how I look to impress my perspective wife or do I hope she accepts me for who I am? See, very nervous. I am nervous, I know I will never look like an Olympic swimmer and some women will automatically discount me. God made me this way, just like he made you the way you are. Growing up I played rugby and American football, I had to do many hours of weight lifting. I know I will never be small and sleek, I was built to be powerful and protective. But this makes me nervous, we all judge on appearances, but no one can see into our hearts until we talk. I am nervous, I was raised to be a gentleman, in America people call me "old fashioned" because I believe in opening doors for women, holding out a supportive arm, helping with a jacket, pulling out your chair. But what does a modern Slavic women want, does she look at that as silly and not part of her modern world. Is she fiercely independent and thinks that your gesture of simple politeness is in fact an attempt to hit on her. See nervous again, I don’t understand the culture. I am nervous because I am terrible at languages, I try and try but it’s hopeless. I know it’s terribly insulting to not know the native language. But I literally know three words, Spaciba, Da and nyet, yea that’s going to get me far ;) Finally I am nervous because I talk too much ;) it’s an occupational hazard.

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About Richard

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 49 35 - 45
Lives in: Kaiserslautern, Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany Ukraine
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Light Brown Light Brown, Brown, Black, Red, Blonde, Changes frequently
Hair length: Medium Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 6'1" (186 cm) Any
Weight: 115 kg (253 lb) 40 kg (88 lb) - 75 kg (165 lb)
Body style: Athletic Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Other, Asian, Caucasian (White), Hispanic / Latino, Mixed
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Personality Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive, Average
Lifestyle 
Drink: Don't drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Marital Status: Divorced Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: 2 Any
Oldest child: Older than 18 Any
Youngest child: 18 Any
Want (more) children: No Any
Have pets: Dog Any
Occupation: Medical / Dental / Veterinary Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: $60,001 - $120,000 USD Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Any
Education: Masters Degree Any
Languages spoken: English Any
English ability: Fluent Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Russian ability: None Any
Religion: No religion Any
Star sign: Scorpio Any
Personal 
Bust cup size: N/A Any
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Beach / Parks, Cars / Mechanics, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Gardening / Landscaping, Investing / Finance, Music (Listening), Meditation, Motorcycles, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, Watching Sports
Food: American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Continental, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese
Music: Alternative, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Dance / Techno, Metal, Pop, Rap, Reggae, Rock, Soft Rock, World
Sport: Athletics, American Football, Bowling, Bodybuilding, Boxing, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Darts, Diving, Gym / Weight Training, Jet / Water Skiing, Jogging / Running, Motor Sports, Pool / Billards, Rugby, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Snowmobiling, Soccer, Swimming, Yoga / Pilates

То, что я ищу... Есть так много красивых молодых женщин на этом сайте, и, хотя это лестно для тех же женщин, чтобы связаться со мной. Я прошу прощения, но я просто не интересно. Просьба принять мой совет и найти кого-то свой собственный возраст, расти вместе. Я хочу женщину, интеллигентая(ый),...read more >>

То, что я ищу... Есть так много красивых молодых женщин на этом сайте, и, хотя это лестно для тех же женщин, чтобы связаться со мной. Я прошу прощения, но я просто не интересно. Просьба принять мой совет и найти кого-то свой собственный возраст, расти вместе. Я хочу женщину, интеллигентая(ый), смешные, беззаботный, чувственный, кокетливый и счастливой женщиной. Знаете ли вы разницу между низким вырезать сверху и сексуальное платье? Если вы женщина, которая знает, как надеть красивое платье, рода платье, что бы сделать меня в моих треков и молиться, что ты женщин я там встретиться, то ты мой тип ;) Я объездил почти на каждом континенте в моей жизни, я не смотрю на славянских женщин нуждается в спасении или другие глупости. Эти стереотипы являются для невежественных людей, которые никогда не вышли за пределы их собственных границ. Славянские женщины, как все другие женщины, я был достаточно удачлив, чтобы знать, в моей жизни. Ты интеллигентая(ый), смешные, красивые, добрые и замечательные матери. Верно и обратное, я не ваш банковский счет открытого состава. Я мужчина, я верю в поддерживает моя семья, моя работа заключается в том, чтобы работать, обеспечить, смеяться и любить. Мне сказали, я шлюха личности (это может быть не очень хорошо перевод) в основном, что это значит, что я действительно люблю веселье личности. Мир наполнен скучно мужчин и женщин, я буду всегда ходить мимо скучной красивая женщина для женщины, которая может сделать мое лицо улыбка и смех мой сердце. Я не тип парня, дискотека/ночной клуб, главным образом потому, что я страшная танцор (улыбка). Сказал вам я давно являюсь наматывается ;) Теперь, если вы сделали это, и вы все еще заинтересованы, то просто скажите мне, вы заинтересованы, и я буду делать остальные. Искренне Рич ******************************************************** What I'm looking for ... There are so many beautiful young women on this site, and while it’s flattering for those same women to contact me. I apologize but I am just not interested. Please take my advice and find someone your own age, grow together. I want a woman, an intelligent, funny, lighthearted, sensual, flirtatious, and happy woman. Do you know the difference between a low cut top and a sexy dress? If you are a woman that knows how to wear a beautiful dress, the kind of dress that would make me stop in my tracks and pray that you are the women I am there to meet then you are my type ;) I have traveled over almost every continent in my life, I do not look at Slavic women as in need of rescuing or some other silly nonsense. Those stereotypes are for ignorant people who have never stepped outside of their own borders. Slavic women are like all the other women I have been lucky enough to know in my life. You are intelligent, funny, beautiful, kind, and wonderful mothers. The reverse is also true, I am not your open ended bank account. I am a man, I believe in supporting my family, my job is to work, provide, laugh and love. I have been told I am a personality whore (this is perhaps not very well translated) basically, what this means is that I really love the fun personality. The world is filled with boring men and women, I will always walk past a boring beautiful woman for a woman that can make my face smile and my heart laugh. I'm not the type of Disco/nightclub guy, mostly because I'm a terrible dancer (smile). Told you I am long winded ;) Now if you have made it this far, and you are still interested then just tell me you are interested and I will do the rest. Sincerely Rich

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