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Tom
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

40 Baltimore, Maryland, United States

Male / Single / ID: 214000

Seeking Female 18 - 35 For: Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Tom

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Any

Have children:

No
No

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Christian - Protestant
Any

Occupation:

Political / Govt / Civil Service
Any

Member Overview

My name is Tom. I am here to try and find a serious girlfriend or wife. My cousin said I could find someone here, and I am tired of being lonely. I will not lie to you about anything or misrepresent myself in any way because I want to find a woman that loves me for who I am. So I will tell you a...
My name is Tom. I am here to try and find a serious girlfriend or wife. My cousin said I could find someone here, and I am tired of being lonely. I will not lie to you about anything or misrepresent myself in any way because I want to find a woman that loves me for who I am. So I will tell you all of the good and all of the bad, too. No games here, just 100% honesty! I am a "nice guy." My cousin and friends say I am the nicest guy they know, and so they don't understand why I never have a girlfriend. I just try to be kind and considerate toward everyone. I believe in honesty at all times and try to be a good person. However, I am 30 years old and I've had only one semi-serious girlfriend in my life. I am very lonely because I have no confidence with women and I'm very shy. All of my friends tell me I am a good guy, I hope to find someone who will see the good things in me that they see. I never go out to bars or clubs or parties- so I will never meet a woman this way. I hope this works. The good things about me: First, I am 100% positive about this, if I find a woman who will love me and treat me well, I will always always be good to you. I will never cheat on you. I will never abuse you. I will never leave you for someone else. I am extremely loyal to everyone in my life. To my friends and my family and I would be the same to my future girlfriend or wife. I am a loving and affectionate person but I have never had someone to give that love and affection to. I have no bad social habits. I never flirt with other women, I am much too shy and modest and conservative for that. I never drink. I will never get drunk. I never smokes. I do not and never have used any illegal drugs. I am not a party animal and will not stay out late at night. I will not leave you to go play cards with his guy friends every night. I have a good and stable job. I work for the government of the state of Maryland making a good salary with good benefits in a secure job where I will likely be for a long time. I will try to be a good provider. I am a family man. I love my mother and my brother and my grandmother and my extended family. I pays visits to each member of my family whenever I can, often going out of my way to visit when other family members won't come to see me. I am interested in starting a family and may want to have children with the right woman. I think I will be a great father and doting husband if someone will give me the chance. Others say I am very smart. I always did very well in school. I am well-educated. I am not very worldly, but I am curious about the world. I am still a virgin. I have no STDs. I have not been with 100 other women, or even one. I can promise if you meet me, I will not be using you just for sex. Many other men on this site will do that, but not me. I'm not a playa. Now, the bad things. there are also many. My mother may be an issue. She is very overprotective and clingy. She also has a history of mental illness and though she has medication now she still acts weird. I care for my mother because I know that she can't get along by herself. If you want to have a relationship with me, then you need to understand this and be able to put up with his mother. My father is deceased. I am what some would call a "dork" or "geek" or "nerd." I am not a party animal, I am not very social. I AM very friendly and nice, but if you are the kind of girl that likes to go out on the town, partying and dancing and being seen, then I'm probably not the guy for you. I prefer to stay in watching movies or playing games. I have no interest in fashion and maybe you can tell by looking at me. I am not really interested in popular music or popular culture. I'm not ugly but I am out of shape. I'm overweight by about 40 or 50 pounds. I'm trying to change this- maybe the right girl could help motivate me. If you need a man with big muscles and washboard abs, then I am not the man for you. I am still a virgin. I would like to have sex with the right woman, but don't expect me to be an expert in this area right away. I can be a little distracted at times and am not great about keeping up correspondence all the time. I get caught up in my hobbies and I'm also busy with my job and with my family commitments. I think if I found the right girl, though, I would devote a lot of attention to her so maybe this won't be a problem. I can be shy and quiet, especially at first. Once I'm comfortable around you, though, then I can be quite talkative. But I am not a confident player kind of guy. If you need a bold, confidant, outgoing man, then I am not the man for you. I have my own house, but right now it is not too big. I will probably buy a bigger place if I can afford it in 3-7 years. Finally, I am a messy person. I don't like to throw things away, so my house can be cluttered and disorganized. I hope if I find a wife she can help me keep my house in order and clean because most of the time I simply don't have the time or energy to do it myself.
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Seeking

My description of the woman I am looking for was too long apparently, because it got cut off before it was approved for my profile. So, please be honest and real and when we communicate one-on-one I will tell you more about what I'm hoping to find here.
My description of the woman I am looking for was too long apparently, because it got cut off before it was approved for my profile. So, please be honest and real and when we communicate one-on-one I will tell you more about what I'm hoping to find here.

More About Me

Tom

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
40
18 - 35
Lives in:
Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Any
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
No Answer
Any
Hair type:
No Answer
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
No Answer
Any
Height:
5'10" (178 cm)
4'11" (150 cm) - 5'10" (178 cm)
Weight:
105 kg (231 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 68 kg (150 lb)
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
No Answer
N/A
Best feature:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
No
No
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Answer
Any
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service
Any
Employment status:
No Answer
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
No Answer
Any
Living situation:
No Answer
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Russian ability:
None
Any
Religion:
Christian - Protestant
Any
Star sign:
Don't Know
Any

Personal

Bust:
N/A
Any
Waist:
N/A
Any
Hips:
N/A
Any

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