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Iraproctor
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Last active: 1 month ago

47 Marlborough, Massachusetts, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 2520232

Seeking Female 18 - 60 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 1 month ago

Overview

Iraproctor

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

Entertainment / Media
Any

Member Overview

OK... this is long, but better you know everything big up front. I am a father of 4 beautiful children that now live with their mother. As long as I get to see them a lot, it's OK. I am separated and getting divorce right now. I did not want this divorce, but it's happening. So I am going to start ...
OK... this is long, but better you know everything big up front. I am a father of 4 beautiful children that now live with their mother. As long as I get to see them a lot, it's OK. I am separated and getting divorce right now. I did not want this divorce, but it's happening. So I am going to start looking for a good woman, my goal is simple... find my true wife. I really thought my wife was that person, but I can't force her to stay. She has beat me into submission, if there was a chance I'd fight to save my family (4 kids deserve every last effort)... but there is nothing I can do. I know that now. I like being in a committed relationship. I like caring for another and be cared for. What I really liked about marriage was how much more the love grew (in me) year after year, how every bad time seemed to make my love stronger, not less. THIS was clearly not happening on both side. Not everyone is the same, I think my wife is doing wrong, but I refuse to be angry with her. I know, no one grows up wanting a divorce, so whatever went wrong that I can't understand, I do not blame. I just want to find the woman that will take my hand, and walk with me all the way home... to the home we're all going to. So, here I am. "too early" some say. BS! Nope. Once it's dead, it's dead. If I'm to wait until I never love my wife, I'll never marry again. I'll love her, in some way... until I die. AND LISTEN... that's the man you should want. Do you see that? Not some cold piece of iron that loves so shallow all the roots die as soon as the flowers are pulled. I sent roots down so deep, they will outlive me. If my wife dies before me... even if we never talk, I'd go to her at the end. I'd tell her, your husband is here now, and I would comfort her... because that is what love does. It survives anything. Please, understand, my heart is so so big, I know... I live in it. There is so much room for another love, one I want to take my heart over. If you are 20 you may not understand this, 40-50? maybe then you get it? So, I'm here, and YES... I'm ready. It takes time to know someone, so the time to start is now. I want a good family life again, and I want my wife to make growing our love a priority we share. If I meet someone with children that's OK. Someone with no children that's OK. I am even willing to have more children if I meet the right person and she wants them. I'm flexible on this subject. I am kind, loving, and compassionate. I will not yell and scream at my wife, and I hope she will not do it to me. Even when we are upset, yelling is never a solution, it only makes things worse. As for my Career. Please don't freak out when I say this, but right now I am poor. This will not last long, I am restarting my career. I will be going fully in no more than 2 months, most likely by the end of November. in 2020 I will make $75-100K and in 2021 I'll make more. This I am sure of. When my wife had our first set of twins (our daughters), she asked me if I would slow down my career so she could keep hers. I did this, but when our next set of twins came working and raising them became impossible. I have a great Manager and Great Agent, they are right now lining up my work again. I will be back to working often very very soon. I can earn respectable living and I travel a lot for my work. I travel lot for my work, and I can bring my special someone along on some trips if she wanted. Also, when the divorce ends, we'll sell our home and split the money invested into it. There is money in equity there we'll split. Then, I buy a new home. I'm not perfect, but I try to be the best I can everyday. I have a lot of empathy for others and forgive very easy. I am here because I want to marry a great woman and I find Eastern European women very beautiful. I want to be with the best one for me and treat her as perfectly as I can, and trust she will do the same.
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Seeking

I'm not as concerned about age, language barriers (language can be learned easier than true love can be found), income, any of that. I want to meet someone with a good heart who tries hard to be the best they can. If they have a good heart, love me, and I love them, I'm not worried if this woman ma...
I'm not as concerned about age, language barriers (language can be learned easier than true love can be found), income, any of that. I want to meet someone with a good heart who tries hard to be the best they can. If they have a good heart, love me, and I love them, I'm not worried if this woman makes no money at all, I can make enough to be comfortable. I am also not in any way intimidated by a woman that much much more than me. I know who I am and I know what is most important in life, it's love. Money can not buy love, and I would rather live in a cave with a woman I love than in a palace with a cold person. She should care about family, or can at least understand that I do care greatly for my children. I must have a strong relationship with them... I don't abandon those I care for. You should not want a man willing to do so, he's not a man. I'd be happy to have more kids. I'm fine with no more kids also. Also someone who likes fun and a little adventure. Is willing to be open minded about learning new things about the world and themselves. Sometimes learning takes a little bravery and a sense of adventure. I like to hold a woman and be held, it's just nice and I want that. I must also say this. Marriage is to me only for love. It must be real and must be deep. If you look at me and think you can not fall deeply in love with a man that looks like me, please do not pretend you could. I'm 47 and I can not be hurt like that again. When I marry again someday. I'll never hurt my wife in any way, as least not on purpose. Last thing, and this is awkward, it’s about sex. I like it. I'm even pretty good at it. I am fit and my body is like a younger mans, so I want it more than other men my age, but if it’s not real, if it is done for duty or withheld like a weapon…. We can not be. I will not live like this.

 I know of people that go weeks without it, that to me is insanity. I want to want my wife. I will not lie to the woman I love… ever. I know that is a big claim, but it's who I want to be. That means I will NEVER lie to the woman I love, because I make the things I want reality... I don't just talk about them. I know I wrote a lot, but there is a lot I think a woman should know going into anything with me. So I figured I'd get it all out of the way now. No surprises! :-)
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More About Me

Iraproctor

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
47
18 - 60
Lives in:
Verified
Marlborough, Massachusetts, United States
Any
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate to another country, Not sure about relocating

Appearance

Hair color:
Blonde
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
Contacts
Any
Height:
Verified
6'0" (183 cm)
Any
Weight:
90 kg (198 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Asian, Caucasian (White), Indian, Pacific Islander, Mixed
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Personality
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
4
Any
Oldest child:
7
Any
Youngest child:
4
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Entertainment / Media
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with family
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Any
Russian ability:
None
Any
Religion:
Other
Any
Star sign:
Virgo
Any

Personal

Bust:
N/A
Any
Waist:
N/A
Any
Hips:
N/A
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Collecting, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Karaoke / Sing-along, Meditation, Museums / Galleries, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Writing

Food:

American, French, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Eastern European, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Pop, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

Athletics, American Football, Baseball / Softball, Basketball, Biking, Bowling, Boxing, Cycling, Darts, Figure Skating, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Gymnastics, Hiking, Horse Riding, Swimming, Table Tennis, Volleyball, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Book:

Too many to choose from.

Favorite Food:

Lots of foods. I really like to eat Healthy food

Favorite Music:

Classical, Blues, The Grateful Dead, ELO, Sia... other stuff

Dress Style:

very fit and my dress sense varies. I love to dress nice and look sharp, I also love to be outside in shorts with not shoes or shirt. Generally, I like to look good and neat

Humor:

It's very very good. Not being cocky, but it's very good. I can explain

Hobbies & Interests:

Reading, exercise, a lot of stuff. swimming, fishing, golf, hiking, working outside (yard work and stuff)

Travelled:

Asia, Europe, all of the USA, central and South America, Caribbean,

Cultural Adaption:

I think I'd be fine. Cultures vary, a good heart is a good heart.

Romance:

If it's with someone I really care about... that my perfect romantic weekend. Everything else takes a back seat. I suppose a weekend on a lake in a small cottage, with a boat, walking trails, swimming area. Then again, a weekend in a city is nice. New York is fun.

Personality:

I'm kind, forgiving, and try to treat people with empathy. I'm not a perfect person and try to be a better one every day.

My Perfect Match is:

Someone kind... with traditional values, but who is also a free thinker and willing to explore and grow as a person.

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