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Fred
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Last active: over 12 months ago

70 Oakland, California, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 666506

Seeking Female 33 - 49 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Fred

He's Looking For

Education:

PhD or Doctorate
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Have children:

No
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Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

Buddhist
Any

Occupation:

Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Any

Member Overview

Fairly independent guy, creative, strong social conscience, sardonic humor, complex thinker, ENFP, with wide ranging interests in mythology, preservation of indigenous cultures, sacred ceremony and art, Green Party politics and values, and health care for all. Looking for comfortable relationship, e...
Fairly independent guy, creative, strong social conscience, sardonic humor, complex thinker, ENFP, with wide ranging interests in mythology, preservation of indigenous cultures, sacred ceremony and art, Green Party politics and values, and health care for all. Looking for comfortable relationship, easygoing and complex conversations with ability to differ amiably and learn from each other. Am a certified massage therapist, so that's nice to share almost anytime. I love Argentine tango, teach it occasionally on an informal basis. The magic of a good tango can reverberate for days! Not looking for anyone to "be my other half" or do things for me, but rather another mostly whole person. Am an excellent cook, do my own housekeeping, laundry, chores, and problem solving. Grew up as a kid with my family living in Venezuela, Nicaragua, Brazil, Argentina, Mexico. Favorite places? Iguassu Falls, Ein Gedi, Borobudur, Tenochtitlan, Hezekiah's tunnel under Jerusalem, and Cerro Fitzroy (where I plan to visit someday). Worked on a kibbutz in Israel for a year, doing irrigation, harvesting, kitchen duty for 600, garbage man, laundry, welding and metal fabrication. Have had interesting work history with the criminally insane in a maximum security treatment center; doing FBI prison research on convicted sex offenders and autoerotic asphyxia (I don't recommend it); also ran group home for boys, was a school-based therapist, and professional singer with Chanticleer, with lots of touring and CDs I'm proud of (Musikverein in Vienna; Lincoln Ctr, NYC, Sydney Opera House). Currently work in healthcare technology planning for large nonprofit provider. Interested in systems thinking, complexity theory, archetypal psychology, Edgar Rice Burroughs outer space sci fi, Moby Dick, Count of Monte Cristo, Buddhism (Tibetan), Middle East politics, the mounting crises of capitalism (and our apparent inability as a species to learn), neurophilosophy, fractals, strange attractors, toxic memes, critical theory (Frankfurt School). I do some volunteer international consulting on healthcare planning for remote, poor regions, esp. developing appropriate technology for rural maternal health services, bridging with midwives and traditional healers. I'm much more interested in the content of your character, your struggles, and what you're doing with your life than in dog pictures, how you "like to laugh", or how equally comfortable you are in a little black dress or jeans. Ability to share quiet time is good. Strong social and political conscience is essential, aesthetic intelligence, creativity, clever, mordent sense of humor desired.
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Seeking

Seeking comfortable, evolving relationship, easygoing and complex conversations with ability to learn from each other. Kind, caring to others. Creative, artistic, affectionate.
Seeking comfortable, evolving relationship, easygoing and complex conversations with ability to learn from each other. Kind, caring to others. Creative, artistic, affectionate.

More About Me

Fred

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
70
33 - 49
Lives in:
Oakland, California, United States
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Relocate:
Willing to relocate to another country
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Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
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Hair length:
No Answer
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Hair type:
No Answer
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Eye color:
Blue
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Eye wear:
No Answer
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Height:
5'9" (176 cm)
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Weight:
84 kg (185 lb)
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Body style:
Average
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Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
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Facial hair:
Goatee
N/A
Best feature:
My Personality
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Body art:
No Answer
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Appearance:
Average
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
No Answer
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Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
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Income:
No Answer
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Home type:
No Answer
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Living situation:
No Answer
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
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Education:
PhD or Doctorate
Any
Languages spoken:
No Answer
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English ability:
Fluent
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Russian ability:
None
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Religion:
Buddhist
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Star sign:
Aquarius
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Personal

Bust:
N/A
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Waist:
N/A
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Hips:
N/A
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More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Apocalypse Now, Count of Monte Cristo, The Fountain, Colors of Paradise, What Dreams may Come, Wings of Desire

Favorite Food:

Thai, Burmese, Japanese

Favorite Music:

Most ... tango Argentino, renaissance, baroque, samba, bossa nova, MJQ, Cristina Branco, Dulce Pontes/fados.

Dress Style:

Professional for work, very casual the rest of the time. Farmer overalls on the weekend.

Humor:

Excellent, situational wits, sardonic, dry, sometimes outrageous.

Hobbies & Interests:

tango Argentino, tennis, reading, research, picnics on the coast, quiet weekend in a cabin in the woods.

Travelled:

Venezuela, Cuba, Nicaragua, Guatemala, Mexico, Canada, Australia, Austria, Germany, Italy, Luxembourg, Belgium, France, Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Israel/Palestine, England, Ireland, China, Thailand, Indonesia, Brazil, Argentina, Paraguay, Chile, Peru, Colombia, Panama, Ecuador, Belize, Portugal, Spain, El Salvador

Cultural Adaption:

Very open and appreciative of cultural differences, ready to work with the inevitable challenges

Romance:

Rent a cottage on the coast or in the mountains. Cook some wonderful meals together; sleep late, read in bed, share massage, spend time out in nature enjoying the peace and quiet.

Personality:

Very serious about world problems, injustice, and political/economic systems that are corrupt, destructive. I try to mix humor in with commentary and analysis of current affairs. Very creative, visionary, idealistic about creating a viable planetary future.

My Perfect Match is:

Kind, creative, compassionate, committed to making things better. Interested in learning, building community. Artistic (music, visual). Enjoys tango!

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