Looking for the perfect partner as friend & lover

Freddy (35) 

Male / Single / ID: 883150
Saarbrücken, Saarland, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: No
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: No religion
Occupation: Self Employed

While being a standard-member myself: MESSAGES will ONLY be SAVED, if you caught MY interest and / or are at least GOLD or PLATINUM; any else WILL BE DELETED UNREAD! _______________________________________________________________________________________ Please, be patient: I'm reworking my profile...read more >>

While being a standard-member myself: MESSAGES will ONLY be SAVED, if you caught MY interest and / or are at least GOLD or PLATINUM; any else WILL BE DELETED UNREAD! _______________________________________________________________________________________ Please, be patient: I'm reworking my profile text. Beside that, I TRIED to keep this "little about" myself SHORT, but I unfortunately HAD to bring more details in, to avoid anybody, who couldn't accept me like I am and/or who aren't, who I'm looking for. So: within the next days (today: July 28, 2018), I'll make a short list of my qualities, you can browse through to see, if I may be that one guy, you're looking for - and a detailed list afterwards, IF you're interested in me and/or curious to know more details about me. I wish, it wouldn't be necessary to do all that stuff, but I'm tired of repeating everything on the new. Sorry! _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ I've been born in Germany as single child of my German father (retired engineer) and my French mother (retired French-teacher). I've no siblings and raised up in Germany & France. Also, I've been increasingly attracted to France; mainly, because the biggest part of my family (by now) lives there, but also because - in my opinion - the German politics has still been too soft in the eradication of the Nazis. Anyway ... Let's go further to my positive characteristics: 1. I'm a non-smoker. 2. I'm not tattooed. 3. I don't care about religion. 4. I'm a very humoristic person: I like any jokes, as long as they're not meant to be seriously rassistic or just people despising. 5. I like to eat good food (different types of meat, vegetables & fruits, seafood, ...) and to drink different beverages (water, coffee, tea, fruits- & vegetables juices, smoothies, wine, alcoholic drinks, ...) 6. I'm an easy person: I don't need the most unnecessary gadgets the market offers like smartphones (I prefer mobile-phones with REAL touches and a weight, that you really recognize), air-condition (humans could live more than two millenia without A/C, so why should I care about to use it by myself?), HD- & Blu-ray-DVDs (the standard format is the real one; anything else is just an excuse to offer the same for more money and so-called higher quality), ... Examples are very various - and I'm still alive!!!! (Any further details about each point of my self-description WILL be found further down as corresponding sub-point) Unfortunately, I thought that I was clear enough, which kind of girl/woman, I'm looking for, but obviously I wasn't STILL clear enough - so I'll be entirely clear that no misunderstanding will come up AS LONG AS, YOU TAKE THE TIME TO READ WHAT NEEDS TO BE READ!! ➡ 1. I never smoked, because: a) I've never been interested in smoking. b) it doesn't matter, if you're an occassionally or hardcore smoker: when you started to tare your lungs, it'll be irreversible. c) I do care of MY health, so if a candidate (to a potential relationship) doesn't care about HER health, I don't want to be in more than a friendly relationship to her. d) Smoking is promoting cancer, so if you want to deal with that, deal with it, but WITHOUT ME! e) I'm NOT kissing any smoker - and kisses are one of the basic requirements in a relationship of love. ➡ 2. I have no tattoos, because: a) I've never been interested to transform my body into a walk-around painted canvas (though, I must admit, that a certain style of art may be found as tattoos, made by artists). But in my opinion, art should been found on any type of canvas, EXCEPT SKIN! b) It doesn't matter, if you got a small single tattoo somewhere on you (body, legs/feet, arms/hands, etc.) or your body has been completely transformed into a walking tattoo: just because YOU like your appearance, it doesn't mean, that everybody feel it the same way. Personally to me: tattoos don't increase the attractivity, but the disgust! c) based on my health understanding, the total unusefulness of tattoos is a blemish towards potential candidates to a relationship of love, because it means to me, that she doesn't accept her natural beauty. Also, even if you got your tattoo(s) removed, the so-called "untouched" natural beauty won't come back, cause it'll be lost forever ... I fully accept make-up (and slightly even piercings) as "body-art" as long as, it can quickly removed within minutes and without any costs. d) The process of tattooing may promote several health issues through infections or even by allergic reactions, caused the different types of ink, which are in use. Same thought like for smokers: if you want to deal with that, deal with it, but WITHOUT ME! Also, if my partner would get a tattoo (doesn't matter, if she would tell me before or after!), she would automatically have cancelled the relationship in that second, the needle would drop the ink on her skin, means: I would instantly broke up! [In informal relationships like some kind of an "arrangement", I may accept tattoos, when it'd be clear from the beginning, that it'll never become a real partnership / relationship of love. I'm going to describe, what I'm expecting of a "real relationship" in a matter of time ...] ➡ 3. "God" means NOTHING to me! I've never been a follower of any religion (and NEVER will be!); mainly: because I don't believe in one of those "airs" - commonly known as "God" -, but also because I make a lot of fun about this sillyness. An example? My own definition of that ridiculous word "Blasphemy" is: jammed ones misunderstand my humor. ➡ 4. Laughing or at least always to have a smile on your lips, is a fundamental requirement to enjoy your life. _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ (This part of the description will be soon deleted - BEGIN) Once again: if you're NOT SMOKING (not even occasionally) and/or NOT TATTOOED and/or NOT RELIGIOUS, you'll get a possible chance to know me better. Anybody else: PLEASE DON'T ASK! (This part of the description will be soon deleted - END) _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ I could come back soon as FULL member here, but I guess not earlier than somewhen in the 2nd half of 2018 or even 2019 ... --- Don't look at my age: I don't like my actual age (35! What a sillyness!!); I still feel like 20y, cause I didn't changed over the last 15y - mainly, because I never smoked, while I drink very rarely some alcoholic drinks. Also, I'm doing a lot of sports (as often as I can), due to my job in which I often have to travel for. Beside that, I'm open-minded, adventourous, very passionate, friendly and sarcastic. I like to get in touch to new places and with new people, mainly accorded to my job (which I really like a lot to do!). --- I wish, I wouldn't need to define some "rules", while coming up on my profile, but obviously, I have to: 1. if you DON'T have a picture on YOUR profile, any request (same for messages) will be rejected. (I'm not into blind dates, as long as I don't know WHO to expect!) 2. as long as I'm a STANDARD member, I'm ONLY able to read and/or to write messages, when my opposite contact is anything else than a standard-member. So: don't be mad at me, if I "never answered" while our common time as standard-members! Also, I'm deleting any messages, which I'm unable to read!! 3. though I know, that this site ain't made for politics & similar stuff, I'll stop any match, if you're supporting Trump, Putin, Assad or Duterte; same for the far-right "politics" of the French "Front Nationale", the German "afd" or any other shady group against multiculturalism. (I'm ½ German, ½ French, grew up in the European Union & Planet Earth is my home. So, it's yours! Deal with it!!) 4. I don't own a smartphone (and never will!), so stop asking me for apps of any kind. Thanks!

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About Freddy

He's Looking For

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 35 18 - 29
Lives in: Saarbrücken, Saarland, Germany Any
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Hair color: Light Brown Light Brown, Brown, Black, Red, Blonde, Changes frequently
Hair length: Short Long, Medium, Short
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 6'4" (193 cm) No Answer - 5'10" (179 cm)
Weight: 95 kg (209 lb) No Answer - 99 kg (218 lb)
Body style: Athletic Petite, Slim, Average, Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: If You're lucky I'll show you later Any
Body art: None Piercing, Earrings, None
Appearance: Average Any
Drink: Occasionally drink Any
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Marital Status: Single Any
Have children: No Yes - don't live at home, No
Number of children: N/A Any
Oldest child: N/A Any
Youngest child: N/A Any
Want (more) children: Yes Any
Have pets: No Pets Dog, Cat, Fish, Bird, Hamster / Guinea Pigs, Rabbit, Reptile, No Pets
Occupation: Self Employed Any
Employment status: Homemaker Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Other Live Alone, Live with friends, Live with family
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Germany Any
Education: Bachelors Degree Any
Languages spoken: English,French,German English, French, German
English ability: Very Good Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Russian ability: None Any
Religion: No religion Any
Star sign: Pisces Any
Bust cup size: N/A Any
Bust: N/A Any
Waist: N/A Any
Hips: N/A Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Other, Antiques, Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Collecting, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Library, Music (Listening), Motorcycles, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Photography, Reading, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Video / Online Games, Watching Sports, Wine Tasting, Writing
Food: Other, American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Vegan, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese
Music: Other, Alternative, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Pop, Rap, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World
Sport: Other, Auto Racing, Biking, Cycling, Darts, Fishing, Golf, Motor Sports, Pool / Billards, Tennis / Badminton

First of all: the most beautiful gender the humanity makes out, is the female one! A girl (or woman) offers often nice curves or at least the future option to get some well-known curves. _______________________________________________________________________________________ Anyway - what I'...read more >>

First of all: the most beautiful gender the humanity makes out, is the female one! A girl (or woman) offers often nice curves or at least the future option to get some well-known curves. _______________________________________________________________________________________ Anyway - what I'm looking for: a penpal can become a friendship and a friendship can become a relationship, but: ONLY if this relationship has been proven over YEARS to be strong enough for more, partners (or at least one of them) should consider to engage a marriage attempt. BUT: you shouldn't consider that within a couple of days, weeks or months. Well, at least: this is MY opinion. If this would be okay for you, than let's try it ... ;) Beside that said, I'd like to get a friend / partner, who matches me by being confident to me, like I may be to her. I accept easily that we've each our "own life at work", but if you'd feel good to share different things to me like I could: do it. Same for me. ;) And now: let's stop THIS text - and let's find out, who's willing to be a part of my life. ;)

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