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Bronzetoy
48 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Timing, fate, chemistry; do they really exist or are they reasons we give ourselves for our own failures. There is often talk of chemistry; the spark between two people that drives a desire to physically connect. In order to allow that spark to ignite we need to first be emotionally and mentally willing. Although I believe physical attraction is important, a spark, the butterflies; what happens if you're not emotionally or mentally ready? It's really quite simple, as sex starts in the brain. If our brain is not prepared to go there then we will not feel the Sparks. If there is a mental or emotional block, the sparks will not ignite. There may be chemistry but we block it. So if chemistry is created by thought waves that release chemicals in our brain, mentally and emotionally we still need a willingness to go there. They say timing is everything. ie: he's not ready for relationship, great guy but I'm not ready to go there, we can’t seem to find time to meet. He was a nice guy but I think the timing was off. It is timing everything? Or is it away of masking our emotional unavailability. Because when we are ready to take a risk and make an effort we find time. Fate, destiny, providence, are words to describe circumstances beyond our control. Is fate set by a power greater than ourselves? Or is it simply a readiness of two people in the same place, wanting the same thing at the same time that makes us feel connected to one another. I guess that’s what you call timing! There are many things that are out of our control. I suppose in the grander scheme of things destiny would be one of those. However we need a readiness and willingness to take a risk on love, to embrace our destiny. That is within our control. Perhaps Providence has been laid out before us, but it is up to us to be ready to walk the path. What if you were walking down the street one day and walked right by your soul mate, twin flame, other half. What if you didn't recognize one another simply because your mental and emotional baggage has you blinded? Whether you believe in soul mates or not don't we have a moral obligation to ourselves to learn our life lessons, to free ourselves from the burden of our past; an obligation to ourselves to welcome life and love. When we are free from the past we are able to live in the present! I guess in the end I’d have to say that I do believe in timing, fate and chemistry but the bottom line is if you are not ready chances are it will pass you by without you knowing it was within your grasp! So it won’t matter anyway.
Bruce
67 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 40 - 54
Rob
61 Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 48
To tell you a bit more about myself, I am very outgoing and social, when I travel I prefer to go to the types of places that locals go, so I can meet the real people, and enjoy the real culture, rather than just eat in the hotel. I truly love great food, good drink and fun company. I love to walk, both in natural settings and in cities. I own my own business that gives me the freedom to travel often. If everything works out I hope to semi-retire in the next couple of years and move either permanently or temporarily to a sunny country, in Latin America, Southern Europe, or maybe you have another suggestion. The woman I am seeking will be confident, outgoing, romantic, forgiving, supportive, and have a positive outlook on life. She will be strong enough to have her own interests as well as sharing some of mine. I dream of a true partner, someone to share adventures, passion, as well as quiet times. Some of the best days start out as simply as walking together to the nearest cafe and sitting outside in the sunshine and watching the life around us, then heading over to a farmers market and picking out fresh food that we can cook together later in the day. She will know that after I've had a hard day, greeting me with an extra long hug, or sitting in my lap and just holding me will wash away the days cares. She will bring me joy as I watch her experience new things in life. Regarding children, I love them, but at 57 it is a little late in life for me to be starting to raise babies, so hopefully I will be able to find a woman that will be happy being my queen, and open to enjoying life as part of a loving couple. the truth is that I'm looking for my lover, partner, and best friend all rolled up into one woman! If after all of this you think we might be good for each other, please feel free to ask me anything you might be curious about, and let's see if a relationship develops.

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