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Richard
51 Kaiserslautern, Rhineland-Palatinate, Germany
Seeking: Female 35 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
I have to be honest, I am nervous. I am nervous because I am bringing my western courtship "style" to Slavic women. I am nervous; I am not a serial dater. I love monogamous commitment, I love being that special man to a wonderful woman. But I don’t know what the culture is for Slavic women. Does the woman date multiple men, is the man supposed to date multiple women? That’s not who I am, I want to find one amazing women and lavish her with all my time and attention, all my love and dreams. I am going to be me and find that special person. I am nervous because I am afraid of being culturally insensitive and saying the wrong thing inadvertently. I am nervous because giving a woman a dozen red roses in America is a special gesture but to Slavic women any even number of flowers is a bad omen. See it’s easy to make a mistake. I am nervous because when I say I don’t drink I mean I really really don’t, as in never. Not at parties, not at dinner, not a single drop. But men are supposed to drink, so I am nervous that I won’t match that ideal of what a man is supposed to be. I am nervous because I am not Brad Pitt, I am just me. A bit goofy, a bit awkward, quick to smile and love. I am nervous because I am not flashy. I married very young (21), I poured my heart, love, honor and money into my family. I never spent money on jewelry, designer clothes or sports cars for myself. My money went into my family and their joys. Now you have a man that doesn’t enjoy flash or flair, just simple family time. I am nervous because I am not a stylish dresser, in fact I have trouble matching a pair of socks ;) I am comfortable in Jeans and a t-shirt. However I read that Slavic women are insulted if their man doesn’t look stylish. I own multiple suites, I own many khakis and polo’s it’s all part of my work wear. But I enjoy wearing shorts and a t-shirt, I feel free and relaxed. Do I change how I look to impress my perspective wife or do I hope she accepts me for who I am? See, very nervous. I am nervous, I know I will never look like an Olympic swimmer and some women will automatically discount me. God made me this way, just like he made you the way you are. Growing up I played rugby and American football, I had to do many hours of weight lifting. I know I will never be small and sleek, I was built to be powerful and protective. But this makes me nervous, we all judge on appearances, but no one can see into our hearts until we talk. I am nervous, I was raised to be a gentleman, in America people call me "old fashioned" because I believe in opening doors for women, holding out a supportive arm, helping with a jacket, pulling out your chair. But what does a modern Slavic women want, does she look at that as silly and not part of her modern world. Is she fiercely independent and thinks that your gesture of simple politeness is in fact an attempt to hit on her. See nervous again, I don’t understand the culture. I am nervous because I am terrible at languages, I try and try but it’s hopeless. I know it’s terribly insulting to not know the native language. But I literally know three words, Spaciba, Da and nyet, yea that’s going to get me far ;) Finally I am nervous because I talk too much ;) it’s an occupational hazard.
Andreas
51 Jever, Lower Saxony, Germany
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
Hello, ... who searches here whom? Is a little like on the bazaar, oh well we rush in the uproar. Respect is based for me on three elementary columns ... 1. Traits ... saves me here positive ones to enumerate I bereits hope with it to deter one third die nicht verstehen ; -) 2. Communication belaestigt und non-verbally ... then one is able, not, do not communicate ... with it the second third is already away ; -) 3. I do not mean love, emotions ... and with it something physically zu entschaedigen to compensate the first both points one separate rather wants to stroke, tenderness, kiss ... men so act really with pleasure ... simply sometimes one in the arm are taken ... hmmm hoffnungen sometimes both thirds just schon jetzt away were are still away ... who der women can better than read look??? Please, request no women less than 30 years ..... I already has a daughter .... I search a woman on eye level. Sorry hello ну ... Кто ищет здесь кого? Немного как На базаре, ну да мы бросаемся â беготню. In order Отношение основывается меня На 3 элементарных колоннах ... 1. Характерные черты ... Экономит мне здесь положительные перечислять Янадеюсь вместе с тем, что устрашу уже одну треть, которые e. понимают его ; -) 2. Коммуникация вербально невербально 2000/2003 ... Все же могут, нет, E. общаются ... С этим вторая треть уже отсутствует ; -) 3. Яe. подразумеваю любовь, эмоции ... 2000/2003 Вместе с тем что-нибудь быть обязанным компенсировать физически, выравнивать первые оба пункта 1 отделяют скорее будет гладить, нежность, целуют ... Мужчины действуют также по-настоящему охотно ... Просто однажды один â руке берутся ... hmmm надеется однажды обе трети только что уже прочь были все еще отсутствуют ... Ну кто из женщин может лучше читать чем смотреть???
Werner
61 Bamberg, Bavaria, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
Marital Status: Divorced
Clint
56 Köln, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 35 - 53
Marital Status: Divorced
Friedrich
83 München, Bavaria, Germany
Seeking: Female 30 - 80
Marital Status: Divorced
Wolfgang
61 Baunatal, Hesse, Germany
Seeking: Female 29 - 48
Marital Status: Divorced

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