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Mike is from United States

Mike (51)

Exciting Time are coming. Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 40 for Marriage

Here it goes... I have dated American women and foreign women. The best relationships have always been with those from foreign countries, so here I am. I am convinced that my happiness will be found looking overseas, as I like to travel and learn new cultures and hope to find someone who enjoys travel, too. I have friends from 37 countries that I keep in touch with. Even though I don't see them often, I feel closer to them than American friends I see every week. I am very relaxed and easy going. I don't think I have ever really been in a bad, bad mood. Sure, I get tired or sad, but that doesn't last very long. I am a clean, neat person. That would include my home, myself and things around me. I prefer quality items, though they cost more, they last longer. NOTE for scammers: Don't waste your time.


Kris is from United States

Kris (27)

Hi.. Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Marriage

I like to succeed, work out, learn, and love. I'd say the quickest way to my heart is with a positive attitude in everything you do. I am compassionate and genuine, but at the same time, the life of the party. Born and raised in Santa Barbara. I'm very active, I live to ride motorcycles, jet-skis, surf, hike, camp, work out. I love making people happy. I am never truly content unless the person I'm with is having a better time than I am. I'm a health insurance agent in town specializing in the California exchange. I work for Anthem Blue Cross, Blue Shield, Aetna, and Kaiser Permanente. The future is looking very bright, if you're involved. I'm very hard working but my absolute dream job is winning someones heart.


John is from United States

John (55)

Sage, Sojourner, Lover, Loyal and... Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 43 for Marriage

I am a sincere, emphatic, educated, traveled native Santa Barbaran/California guy. Children are my greatest passion, formal study/education of which I have one that lives with me part time, a 13 1/2 year girl. . She is the love of my life, my star and an angel, born in the water and raised consciously. I am a rather complex person, having lived, worked and traveled in over 30 countries. I am looking for business opportunities that would/could take me, and eventually my daughter, out of the U.S., unfortunately a dying star economically. I consult in macroeconomics, geopolitics, international living, and offshore issues. I am a licensed yacht salesman, of which I do part time on the weekends. I like just about every activity that has to do with the water, and nature. I love animals, and especially dogs, dolphins and horses. I partner with a sea captain, who has a sailing charter and yacht sales business in Santa Barbara. I am often sailing with him on the charters, so "visit" with the dolphins often. I am spiritual and not religious; open minded, tolerant and thoughtful. My parents have a true, life-long love affair and that has greatly shaped my way of relating to woman. I relate to women as equals, with respect and reference if they are self-worthy. I believe in synchronicity, follow the Tao, and I am an incurable romantic.


Donald is from United States

Donald (56)

Smart, Loyal, Romantic Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55 for Marriage

Hello, my name is Donald and I'm searching for a kindred spirit to share times of laughter, romance and adventure. Some of what I hope to find in this special person include: you have strong values and integrity; you have a playful side and easily laugh at many things including yourself (and hopefully me); you are adventurous and have a zest for life; you appreciate both grand and simple times; and you are sensuous and think that sexy lingerie should be part of the monthly budget. ;-) PROFESSIONAL I am a self-made business owner with over 25 years of experience in the financial services industry. I believe in lifelong learning and have earned multiple bachelor degrees, master degrees and advanced certifications in a variety of areas including psychology, computer science and business. Passing the knowledge to future generations as part-time university instructor is highly rewarding. I'm also mechanically skilled, like working on my motorcycles, and helped my father build a house. Achieving personal and lifestyle goals is important but I'm not a slave to materialism, believe in spending and investing wisely, and enjoying life’s simple pleasures. Helen Keller’s wisdom reflects my philosophy: “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched, they must be felt with the heart.” business interests in Pennsylvania, California and Florida, as well as personal preferences, have evolved into spending time between those locations. An abundance of cultural and recreational activities, climatic variety, and geographic diversity afford the opportunity for an interesting and exciting quality of life. It hope that you enjoy living in a warm, sunny climate near the seashore and are open to considering a bicoastal lifestyle. LIFESTYLE As a curious person with a fondness for learning new things, I have a variety of interests and look forward to enjoying some of them together - especially ballroom dancing - since "it takes two to tango." Hopefully, you also have a variety of pursuits. The differences between us make life interesting and provide a great opportunity to learn from each other. Eating healthy and working out regularly helps me to live a productive and active lifestyle - characteristics that I seek in a partner and would enjoy doing together. Living a balanced life is a priority and includes devoting time for relationships, spiritual growth, leisure, and charitable/community service. FAMILY & VALUES My two sons, Alex and Richard, are my best friends and we enjoy doing many things together, especially traveling. We have explored 49 states learning the history of the United States and experiencing its grandeur. I am very proud that they have matured into smart, kind, and responsible young men. I also cherished the opportunity of raising my ex-wife's daughter, Ashley, from the age of 2. I love Ashley as my own child and helped her through private school, college, and to get established in life. She is now 28 and has two beautiful young daughters, Kelsey and Ava, whom I love very much. They live near me in a guest house on my estate and I get to see them often and enjoy doing fun children activities with them. My heart is open to love and if you have children, they will be loved and treated as my own and I will help them in life any way that I can. I hope that you will love my children with the same heart. Being blessed with parents who cherished a wonderful marriage, I’ve observed that happy and meaningful relationships don’t just happen – they are created. They are created by two compatible and committed partners putting in the effort to join their lives in a meaningful way and taking on the challenges and opportunities of life and love. Trust, integrity, caring, kindness, respect for others, dependability, and forgiveness are essential to keeping relationships strong and romance flourishing. Love is a two way street, but as the saying goes, one should be prepared to give 80% of the time and receive 20% of the time. When both people share that spirit it is magical. Losing my father and three close friends at young ages enlightened me that each day is a gift deserving of appreciating. Treasuring simple moments like hugging while enjoying a beautiful sunset, sharing a candlelit dinner and a bottle of wine, or misbehaving on the couch while watching a movie make each day special. Endeavoring to make such simple pleasures a natural part of our daily lives makes grander times like nights on the town, weekend getaways, and traveling to interesting destinations even more gratifying. We are not going to live forever, why not go out with huge smiles on our faces. :-) THANK YOU Thank you for reading my profile. It is much longer than anticipated, but it seems necessary to provide sufficient information to determine whether we share similar values, interests, and future aspirations. Quite simply, I am ordinary guy seeking an ordinary lady with an extraordinary heart - someone who is fit, attractive, intelligent, loyal, loving,and has strong values. Does this describe you? If so, please SAY HELLO. All glory comes from daring to begin. If you sense an inner stir of curiosity, please send a quick email saying hello. It’s the best way to see if we’re just friendly souls saying hello along life’s journey - or if we’re destined to share our hearts and chart our own adventures together.

Andrew is from United States

Andrew (45)

Looking for my dream. Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 37 for Marriage

I am kind, gentle, and happy. I enjoy biking, hiking, and going to the beach. I am an animal lover, however I do not own any at this time. I am intelligent and caring. I believe in romance and I would like to find someone as committed to a real relationship as I am. Will you teach me how to speak Ukrainian?


jon is from United States

jon (65)

I am here with serious intentions... Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40 for Marriage

self employed business man

James is from United States

James (43)

California Cutie Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 37 for Marriage

I live in Santa Barbara, CA and like to surf and work on my computer

joseph is from United States

joseph (58)

looking for friends, maybe more Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45 for Marriage

I'm very athletic and for my age in very good shape. At present I'm learning to play guitar, something I've always wanted to do. I'm a hard working engineer working and living in Santa Barbara.

Michael is from United States

Michael (53)

Looking for my Princess Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 46 for Marriage

I will write my manifesto at a later time

christian is from United States

christian (40)

Hi. Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Marriage

.tell you later


Viny is from United States

Viny (57)

loving, caring man Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26 for Marriage

I'm Athletic, caring, loving, live active, healthy way of life. I love sports, nature, most of all family, children and my lover to be will be most important. I came here looking for love, passion.

Stuart (55)

Seeking a partner to share life's... Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45 for Marriage

In insatiable learner of nature and cultures, seeks a partner to enjoy life's opportunities

larry (35)

Wish we be happy together Santa Barbara, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 33 for Marriage

Open minded, I think I can adapt to any style or culture. Layback yet focused.

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