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Buddy
40 Papillion, Nebraska, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
Have children: Yes - live at home
Jeff
53 Manchester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 48
Have children: Yes - live at home
In order to understand me, I should explain my view on web dating profiles. It seems like most people want serious, I'm serious about a relationship but not until I know the relationship is seriously a match. There are a lot of people playing games on these sites trying to sucker poor guys out of their money, I'm not a sucker rather a loving caring and cautious person who will give all of myself to someone not all of my money as some of the poor fools I've heard stories about. I'm not rich. I'm a mature man, a real man not your typical American. I'm not an abuser of women. I'm conservative in values through and through and yes I believe in God. I don't pretend to believe in God. I am not perfect I've done some things in the past I regret and I don't expect an Angel. In fact rough around the edges works. No faking or pretending, I don't like "acting" religious so I don/t pretend for anyone, nor do I expect my partner to pretend. I am a realist and I've learned to be patient through my kids. They are older now the youngest are almost 16. I have several but most have moved on.I started early and now I'm 51. You can't be shy about sex. Sex is exciting and fun when both people are on the same page. You need to be able to communicate about your desires not expect dthe other person to guess. I would like a woman who is confident and is always a lady but enjoys sex also and likes it much more often than once a week, I'll tell you that. Someone that doesn't expect the man to always do the chasing . Also knows how to dress to drive a man crazy that is the best!
Thomas
71 Columbia, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Have children: Yes - live at home
I'm on that dating site to find a good,honest,loving,affectionate,caring, romantic,cheerful,good humored woman to be my best friend,lover and if we click,my wife,OK? Here is some background information on me.I'm 67 years young,I say young,because I am very young at heart.I feel like I am around 30 years old.I got married when I was 25 years old and I was a virgin.I was only married one time,for 29 years,to the same woman,until she passed away (September 7th,2002) from throat cancer.I have three grown up daughters,Kelly-45,Danielle-41 and Katie-35.Danielle has four kids,21,19,17 and 16 years old.I have 2 older brothers,3 younger brothers and one sister,she is the youngest.I was born and raised on a farm.My dad grew,corn,soybeans and wheat and a few other crops.He also raised hogs,cattle,sheep,goats and we had chickens for are own eggs to eat.We also had milk cows,for are own milk and to sell.Of course my brothers and I had to help my dad on the farm.Oh,we also grew alfalfa and clover to bale for hay.There was always a lot to do on the farm,all year round and it was hard work.My mom and dad are both deceased, mom passed away 28 years ago,at age 69 and my dad 17 years ago,at age 81.They were good parents and I miss them,but life goes on. lol I graduated from high school(12th grade). I didn't go to college,my parents really couldn't afford it and it wasn't a real big interest withare family anyway.I left the farm and moved to St. Louis,Missouri in December of 1970 and lived there until October 29th,2005.That's when I moved back to my home town of Macon,Missouri (about 5,538 population).Just about all my brothers live around here and my sister.I live out from town about 2 miles,on 6 acres of land,with a few trees,but mostly open grass area.I have been retired for over 11 years now.I was a Chief Engineer/Department Manager in charge of a large Maintenance/Engineering department,at a state facility.There was about 40-45 employees that I was in charge of,directly and indirectly.I had 6 supervisors under me and a secretary.We maintained,repaired and did construction on about 50-60 buildings throughout the facility.So,I know a little about all kinds of building and mechanical repairs and building repairs.I'm pretty handy around the house as far as repairs and installing things are concerned.I like doing things outside as far as working and playing,but I like indoor stuff also.I like watching movies at home as will as taking in a good movie at a theater.I like different kinds of music,soft rock,romantic ballads,some classical and some country/western,but I hate rap music.I like watching different documentaries,about animals,how things are invented,how different things are manufactured,electronics,new science and a variety of other things.I like watching football,hockey,baseball and like playing basketball. OK,hmmmm what else should I say? This is a lot of typing for this old slow typist. lol ha ha ha OK,let's see.Oh,you will find out that I am a honest,understanding,forgiving,compassionate, passionate, romantic,affectionate,optimistic,positive,supportive,very tolerate,cheerful,strong(personality),somewhat intelligent,playful,loving,compromising,calm,down to earth type of guy.Plus a few more good qualities I can't think of right now. lol ha ha ha Oh,I love to joke around,tease and be playful with the one I love.I can be serious also,when it is appropriate.I love,being intimate,a lot,to the woman that I am in love with.I hope you love it a lot also.I like being adventurous and playful when it comes to making love.I know I can please you physically as will as emotionally in that area of our relationship.That is when we finally meet and we both feel mutually comfortable in being intimate with each other .I'm interested in a woman 18-35, slender to average, with the similiar interests as mine.Who is not afraid to say what is own her mind, just be truthful to your feelings. A woman that believes and understands that honest communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Communication involves sharing your thoughts, opinions, and emotions honestly and openly with your partner. We expect certain things of our partner; in turn our partner has certain expectations of us. The key to expectations is making them realistic. There are two types of gratification--physical (safety, sensual, and sexual) and emotional (love, caring, and affection). In a healthy relationship, both partners are honest about what their needs are, and both partners are willing and able to meet the other partner's need on a long-term basis. Influence deals with whom leads and is in control. Healthy relationships thrive on each partner's ability to work together and compromise when conflicts arise. We must have trusted. Rational trust is supported by the fact that your partner is trustworthy and we feel confident and safe with his or her honesty, character, ability, and strength. Each partner has a need to keep a sense of self otherwise he or she will become consumed by the relationship. Boundaries establish where one person begins and the other person ends. Me, you, and we need to be defined as separate entities. However we will always support each other physically, emotionally, and spiritually no matter what.Ok,that's a little about me and the kind of woman I am looking for .Bye for now and take care. Warm regards, Thomas (Tom)
idarwin
54 Wenatchee, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 55
Have children: Yes - live at home

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