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53 Carmel, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Salutations....about me: I am going to write the most brutally honest, blunt, self-description you have probably ever read. So, love it or hate it. :) I am a single, Christian father of an 11 year old boy. I have been single by choice since early 2008 and albeit having never been married, am completely ready for a lifetime commitment. Upon fighting for and being awarded sole physical and legal custody of my son in December 2007, I made the decision to focus on raising him during the formative years. Now that he is old enough to see and accept 'Daddy' dating, I am searching for a lifetime partner. :=) I am an avid golfer who enjoys traveling, attending church/related functions, reading fiction and non-fiction, exploring, and pretty much doing anything involving walking out my front door. I even enjoy yard work, love gardening (proud owner of a green thumb) and yes, household chores. I am 5'10'', 265lb, husky but exercising regularly, have all my teeth, all my toes, hazel eyes, salt-n-pepper hair. I am just an average man who is far from perfect. Oh, and I have a boy with bad aim, so I know how to clean bathrooms, do laundry, dust, vacuum and perform a litany of other household chores, so I am obviously NOT seeking a servant/maid. I have been to 47/50 US States and if my memory serves me correctly, 15 countries, yet I love taking short trips to local Hoosier (Indiana) favorites, like Abe Martin Lodge in Brown County, Indiana. I am a 'occasionally' active member at my church (Lutheran). Even though I do not have much free time, I am NOT interested in skipping ahead in a relationship. I understand that any relationship is a process and takes time. I only ask than any woman who is intrigued by my profile be serious in her intentions. I am not here to play games, so please do not play them with me. In my teens, 20s and 30s, I only dated women who were physically attractive and my priority was just about having FUN. I strayed far from Gods word and His intentions for me in my relationships with women. Thus, I never had a relationship that lasted more than a few months, a few up to 2 years. I NEVER cheated on a woman, never hit a woman, never treated a woman poorly, in fact I was always loving and generous....I was just incapable of giving myself to a woman emotionally, spiritually and mentally and thus all my relationships eventually dissolved into nothing. I was the classic 'Peter Pan' kind of man....fun, loving, yet still emotionally a child who never grew up. Until I knew I was to be a Father. I have never been married and have no drama in my life. Sorry, no Soap Operas going on in my home. LOL I am close to my family, who also reside in the Carmel, Indiana area, and intend to remain here and raise my child, hence the reason for my choosing 'Not Interested in Relocating' in my profile. However, I am 'Open' to someday relocating/retiring to the Philippines or living in both countries; sometime around 2028. I would characterize myself as being intelligent, very conservative/libertarian, educated, adventurous, outgoing and free spirited. Additionally, while I am open to having more children, I am at a place where having more children is not a priority for me. If the Lord blesses me with more children, then I shall celebrate, although I am never changing another poopy diaper in my life!!!! LOL I was an underachiever in my 20s and 30s and bounced around from job to job. I never knew what I wanted to be when growing up and my parents were very critical of my 'ideas' and 'desires' for a career, so I never explored my potential and love for certain things....something I am still dealing with. I refer to my parents as the Dream Killers.....why I will never say to my son, "Oh come on, focus on something real". Dreams should be encouraged....and life has taught me many things, one being 'If you can dream it, you CAN achieve it.' As such, I never stayed at a job long enough to build a career, and at age 51, that part of my life is past. However, I always lived within my means, never amassed any debt and at 51, own my own home, car, assets....have zero debt and am financially comfortable. So, if you are seeking a seasoned, Career Accomplished Man, I am not the one. I am not 'super wealthy', yet I am far from poor. In fact, I work for 'fun' as I have enough money to be comfortable and financially secure. So, to pursue me is to pursue a man who is still a work in progress....on the other side, I do not have any 'baggage'....no debt, no drama, no ex-wives or girl friends to deal with, no criminal record, no drugs, an occasional beer.....so, if you are seeking an Instant Family....an Instant Success', then pass me by..... WARNING: I am very Conservative and I am a very ardent supporter of the United States Constitution, especially the Second Amendment, own several firearms and am involved in the NRA (National Rifle Association) and GOA (Gun Owners of America). God, Jesus, Holy Spirit, Family, My Constitutional Rights (in that order) are core/fundamental issues for me which I never bend on or compromise! I apologize if any of the above seems too direct, intrusive or just plain rude. I hope you can understand that I am not only seeking my best friend, my partner in life, my future wife, but also someone who will play an important role in my child's life, so I am just being protective. :=) Thanks for reading my novel. :-)
62 Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 57
Please take a moment and read my ENTIRE profile. Sorry. English is currently my only language, but I'm working on it. As I get older, I understand that my life is not over, just the "opening credits." I have an old soul, (did you ever feel that you were born at the wrong time?). So listen. If I don't know that you're interested in me, I may never be able to find you. So, please, PLEASE do not be afraid or think that I will think less if you show me that you are interested in me. We will consider it a "dropped handkerchief", OK? The commitment of a lifetime is not what everyone thinks it is. It's not getting up early each morning to make breakfast and eat together. It's not snuggling in bed together until we both sleep peacefully. It's not a clean house and a home-cooked meal every day ... It's someone who steals all of the bed covers or snores like a chainsaw. It's sometimes slammed doors, and a few harsh words, disagreeing, and the "silent treatment" until your hearts heal. Then...forgiveness! It's about coming home to the same person you know who loves you, and cares about you, despite, and for who you are. It's about laughing that time you accidentally did something stupid and got caught. It may occasionally involve walking through dirty clothes sometimes, and not making beds, without pointing fingers. It involves waking up with YOUR hair in MY mouth, or in the drain of the shower or sink and not saying a word. But one day.....!!! It's about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud. It is about helping each other with the hard work of life! It's about fixing the easiest meal you can and sitting together at 10 pm, to eat, because you both had a crazy day. It's when "Netflix and Chill" literally means you watch Netflix and hang out on the couch. Or Netflix watches the both of us sleep. It's about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane, angry, and hurt your feelings. Because you know that they love you for fat or thin, happy, or grumpy, young or old. Living with the person you love is NOT perfect or easy, and sometimes it can be very difficult, but, it's amazing, incredible, comforting and one of the best things you will ever experience. But let me be clear. I'm not looking for someone to get involved just to divorce a year or two or five years later. I'm looking for my LAST GREAT LOVE! So, who am I? I am the single parent to a 18-year-old daughter, (that I have raised for all but 5 years of her life), into a charming, proper, courteous, intelligent, young, high school senior. She is off to college for 4 years, and insists that I "get back out there and find someone that is worthy of you!", Her words, not mine. Her mother is not, has not, and will not be in the picture so there will be no "baby mama drama", ever. But, be forewarned, if you are looking for a sugar daddy, a visa, a sponsor, an old fool, an inheritance or an idiot ... Left, Please. To the left....Keep it moving! SERIOUSLY! Don't waste my time with silly little games! Did I not just tell you that I RAISED a daughter? No amount of pouty face, "Daddy, please?!?", door slamming, silent treatment, temper-tantrum having, is EVER going to get me to change who I am. I am an educated, bald by choice, non-thug acting "brotha" that knows who I am and am very proud of it; but I'm definitely not a stereotype. I work in a white collar world and conduct myself accordingly so if you are looking for the "yo baby yo" speaking, baggy pant wearing, temporary job having, 3 baby-mama drama having problems, Left, Please. To the left....Keep it moving! I am tall, 1.93 m. I am a big man at 106.141. But I am a gentle soul and I have a light touch, soothing and skillful. I am focused, truly blessed, affectionate, playful, romantic. I read and write when I can, I go to the movies, games, concerts, and spoken word events. An experienced Renaissance man whose childhood idol was Gordon Parks, technology is now my tool of choice. I travel when I can (although not as much as I would like but things are looking up). The theme music to my life is, classic, acid, and smooth jazz, depending on my mood, and lounge, downtempo, or chill out (think, Ibiza). I'm at home in the city. SOHO NYC (this is where I get my energy) as well as the Colorado mountains or beaches on the Gulf Coast (that's where I go to put my problems in perspective and understand just how small they really are, in the greater scheme of things). But, honestly, I would be satisfied sitting on the couch reading or watching TV, with your head in my lap, gently memorizing the many textures of your skin, watching you sleep ... and drool. I'm not a "metro man" at all. I'm low maintenance, not in a lot of "stuff" (I have enough, ... I think). I don't wear alligator shoes, throwback jerseys or have sagging pants. I'd like to think that I'm a little above average and that I know when it's time to put the fork on the table and eat with my hands. Yeah, I have a ton of jeans, they are what I am most comfortable in ... and some with holes ... to wear while I working around the house. But I do own a tux or two and I know which the fork salad is. I am a business professional, but I almost never have to dress for the occasion. Agora, se você chegou até aqui, "CONGRATS !!!" aqui está um bônus, para apenas os corajosos, o seguinte é para você: "Estou tão perto quanto o nariz do seu" rosto "e, minha vida é um" livro "aberto barra invertida briananthonyparks barra invertida" Se você estiver interessado, poderíamos ser amigos e co-escrever os próximos capítulos juntos. Now, if you've made it THIS far, "CONGRATS!!!" here's a bonus, for just the brave, the following is for you: "I'm as close as the nose on your "face" and, my life is an open "book" backslash briananthonyparks backslash" If you are interested we could be friends and co-write the next chapters together.
63 South Bend, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 46
57 Valparaiso, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
I consider myself very diverse and am seeking the same in a companion and friend. I’m a bit of a thrill seeker but am just as content watching movies, playing house and kicking back. I am an inquisitive, smart, stable, even-tempered man, who also knows how to treat a lady. I don’t need to constantly be entertained and am looking for someone of the same individuality. I do enjoy people who are intriguing and like to challenge their own mind as well as challenging mine. My latest pursuit has been learning to play the guitar. I am fortunate enough to have endless travel opportunities and I would love to have a spontaneous partner that is occasionally able to share a few days away. I live alone and have three wonderful daughters who I am committed to when I do have the opportunity to have them with me. Traveling, movies, concerts, plays, motorcycles, playing guitar, quiet night clubs, atv's, skiing, boating, golfing, board games, romantic getaways, romantic anything. Last minute plans, no plans, staying home and chilling out. Diversity. Arizona, California, Colorado, Hawaii, the entire West and Southwest in general. I’ve been to Asia and the Pacific Rim and am looking forward to Europe and South America in short order. Coffe shop, wine bar, martini bar, mountain top, dirt track. All music (for the most part). Live music, The Tudors, Weeds, Dexter, Spartacus, Rules of Engagement, Discovery and Science Channel. Food, especially leftovers. I am a pilot and aviation department manager for a corporation/family in Chicago. As for religion, I respect everyone’s choices and beliefs. I do believe in many intangible entities and am not hung up on any of it. I’m certainly not lost and do not lack a code of ethics that is required to treat others kindly. I love my family, my job and life. I am initially, just looking for some conversation, some companionship, a cup of coffee…that may have some potential to lead elsewhere. Please contact me if you feel we may share some interests.
66 Valparaiso, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 50
My best feature is,im non-denominational, my loyalty & respect for that special someone, the love of my family & friends, and my love and respect for those that give me the same in return, I enjoy playing the guitar and singing songs to, and for the one I love.. I enjoy riding motor cycles, vacationing at Myrtle Beach.... My closest friends describe me as a little to quiet, loyal, kind, compassionate...I speak my mind even if it might not be what you want to hear (open & honest) without being hurtful about it. I would best describe my lifestyle as in general very laid back, goal oriented, hard working, Im a truck driver and im employed with trucks I drive, feel free to look. not into the bar scene, good head on my shoulders, and know where I'm going, and want to be in life.... The thing I am most grateful for is the love and health of my family & friends, time spent with those that mean the most to me, and the lessons I have learned by life experiences that I have lived. The keys to a lasting relationship are respect, consideration for one another, trust, open & honest communication, compromise, loyalty, consideration for one anothers feelings, compassion,and LOVE. but at the end of the day it all comes down to going home to that special someone. And, the excitement of being together again after a long, hectic day. I want everyday when I finally meet that special someone to feel like how I felt when we first met. "That I can't wait to get home to see her again feeling her loving touch... mmmm mmmm ;-) David Watson :applause: :love:



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