the name is emre i been living in america since 2001 im nationally turkish im 20 and im moslty in to ukranian girls cuz i think they really beatiful i love to play soccer beach is the favorite i live crazy so anything else u wana know ask me

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I'm looking to meet someone wonderful. I'm just a regular guy who works hard. I'm hoping to find happiness. A lot of people ask why am I on this site? Well, I have heard a lot of good things about women here are happy, supportive, beautiful and funny. If you think we could be a good match, please feel free t write me a message. 7 Ways to Start a Conversation by Justin 6/3/18: The majority of the people who write to me ask me "how are you doing", "hi", "what's up" or some version of that so I'm going to help you out by listing 7 alternative ways to start talking to someone. This is just based on my experience so feel free to let me know if these are crap or if you have some others to add. This will be in ascending order of effectiveness (in my opinion) 1. Weather: Example: "It's sunny out here today, what about you? How's the weather in New Jersey?" The quintessential standby. Everyone has weather so everyone can relate at least in some respect to this one. I will tell you, that it is very ineffective. The only reason it's on here is that it shows you took the time to see where I'm from. Use this sparingly or if the other person doesn't know good English. 2. Day of the week: Example: "Gosh, I can't believe it's Thursday already - the week is nearly over. Got any plans for the upcoming weekend" Annoying at best but will work in a pinch. One of my company bosses would open every single meeting with this. He literally never budged from the script. It's weak because it's boring and provides absolutely no insight (value) into your life. Just like the weather, it doesn't advance the conversation or cover any ground. Most importantly it makes the person you're talking to have to do all the work in crafting a creative response while you get away with offering nothing. 3. The interview question: Example: "What's life in the USA like? What is your favorite food? What kind of car do you drive?" These are one sided, seemingly out of the blue questions. There are several issues with this type of opener - first, it provides no context into your life. You're asking a question without providing any information about you, yourself. Second, it pits all the effort on the person you're asking to craft a meaningful response. Third, you're a complete stranger and you're asking me to open up to you. This question can be improved exponentially by simply offering a little about you first - some context - like this: "Life here in Anywhereland is boring because we live far from the city, but I fill my time by writing novels. What about you, what is life like in the USA?" 4. This or that: Example: "If you could live in Italy or France, which would you choose?" The question is thought provoking and shows some creativity and it has the added advantage of being easy to answer since it's multiple choice but again provides no context into your own life. Interpals has the word "inter" within it which is a prefix that means "mutual" suggesting that these exchanges should benefit both of us. (For all you smarties out there, yes, yes, I know inter probably refers to the international component of things, but just go with my poetic license will ya ;) 5. I need your advice/opinion: Example: "I just bought a new yorkie and she needs a name, got any good ideas?" This pits the effort on the reader so its value is lower but it also makes the reader feel good because you are seeking his or her help. Everyone wants to feel important and provide value to others. Asking someones advice or for their help is a good way to do that. 6. Comment on yours/describe mine: Example: "Your two dogs are totally adorable. They really seem to be affectionate. My dog, Piper, is a complete player. Unless I offer treats or walk outside, she just lays there like a lump on a log. What's your secret?" The trick is to say something about my profile first and then something in common with you and your life. Doing this shows you are interested in me and my life, and you have common ground with me so that we can relate. It's nearly the best kind of conversation starter there is! 7. The challenge: Example: You are a pretty neat guy, Justin. How did you get so good at gymnastics? Do you have any training secrets? My big talent is food critiquing. I go to restaurants, try their food and then write reviews for blogs. Tell you what, how about I teach you how to critique and you tell me the best way to learn a handstand? Sound like a fair trade? This may sound corny or cheesy, but think about what's going on here. You've described something about you and you've shown an interest in me and then you've bridged the two into common ground. Finally, you've suggested a construct for future conversation. There are elements of structure, reciprocity, mutual gain, and genuine interest at play here. This is the hallmark of good communication, don't you think?

I am an attractive white male, 54 years old, divorced, with 3 young children. I do not smoke or do drugs, and drink a rare beer. I do not care for bars or clubs. Some of my interests include listening to jazz, playing chess, travel, reading, and working around my house on home improvement projects. I am something of a homebody; happiest when at home with family and friends.

I'm by no means the perfect guy. I'm getting older and still single and getting sick of it. My work causes me to travel a lot and it makes building anything lasting a pain. That's not all bad though as my freedom is very important to me. I'm a hard worker and put my all into things, but tend to make all the wrong choices and decisions when it comes to love. I've rarely been the guy who sweeps a woman off her feet, but tend to be the dependable one that women come to when they've had their hearts broken by the person who did sweep them off their feet. I can be moody and am very cynical and jaded at times. While I grew up with a lot of traditional beliefs and values I do think for myself and am not as traditional as I first appear. What may be a deal breaker for many here is that I'm bisexual, but that doesn't mean I'm only out for sex. I over analyze everything and am my own worst critic. May seem a little wierd to those reading this stating my flaws, but figure it is best to be honest and open from the get go so there are no surprises. If you are still reading and can look past my areas that need improvement you'll find someone who is caring, hard working, and loyal to a fault. I'm often a serious lover preferring to take things slow and steady. You won't see me jumping into anything headfirst. I generally take relationships one step at a time. My words can be few, but my actions can speak volumes. I values deeds and will go to great lengths to express their affections through them. If after reading this you are still interested in getting to know me get in touch. After all anything is possible.

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I see, therefore I can. I dream, therefore I try. I am, therefore I do. I feel, therefore I touch. All in their simplest beauty. I am extremely creative in EVERYTHING I do. Ideas never stop, even in sleep. Pigment makes up the colours in life of which we are all made. Because there is no pure white on life's canvas (save for the highlights within reflection) the world is made of greys. Vermilion is the colour in passion of which we all seek. It is the colour of blood beneath the skin's thin surface reaching for light. To hold back in reserve all colour and starve the viewer to expectancy is a master's touch. Once you control this hunger, then you must feed so delicately and precisely with a blast of the pure blood within vermilion. This is the power of ecstasy. (Box, what box?) In a World of Paper Valentines, There are some that give cards and some that give gifts. There are some that give chocolates and some that can only give diamonds. There are some that give their soul and some that give only beauty. There are some that have merely vibrations and some that have a song. There are some that cover their elegance with red And some that hide their beautiful melody. I have tasted your chocolates and have heard your tender sounds. I hum your tune every second I breathe. I hold my breath to not live in your rhythm, but succumb gasping for your rhyme. Your smile has always been my Valentine. I can sing no other song for It is only your song that sings to me. c northlight 2017

Hello thanks for reading my profile, so a little about me I am constantly reading anything I can get my hands on. I love to travel I have seen a lot of the world so far and want to see a lot more. I enjoy good music and like all the corny romantic things guys are supposed to hate and I just can’t help it. I think in relationships that if both people try there best to make the other happy they both usually are. I don’t see the point in being in a relationship if you’re going to cheat. My friends are very important to me most of them I have been in Iraq and Afghanistan with so we are always there for each other. Mostly I think life is a wonderful gift and should be lived to the fullest.

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charming, loyal, Romantic, very easy going, good friend, and very hard working!!! i Love a Clean Life style and take good care of my self. I love children and hope to soon have one or two of my own. I love Football and love to stay active although i work alot to better myself i still find time to work out and stay in shape.

Im a funny and out going guy looking for a a friend, lover, and partner in life :)

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I am a very hard worker, very dedicated to life itself!!!

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Just ask and I will tell you.

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well educated open minded person love to have fun times with people I love

Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take but rather than the number of times your breath is taken away !

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I am a retired NJ Highway Inspector.

I am a professional, but i also have some other passions.

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I am the type of person who enjoys an adventure. I am optimistic. In all appropriate modesty, I am definitely an attractive gentleman [215 pounds of lean Black Man @ 9% body fat on a 5' 11" frame]. I am a Luther Vandross., Temptations, Johnny Legend, Raheim, Musiq Soulchild type of gentleman with just enough Teddy Pendergrass, Prince, and Ying Yang Twins to keep things unorthodox, out of the box, and unpredictable. I enjoy my children (MY PRIDE- All from ONE woman), I love the outdoors (hiking fishing, camping, biking etc). I make it a point to maintain health (H20, vitamins & minerals), am DRUG/DISEASE free and, I hit the gym (weights & cardio) for the love of life and a fit body. I enjoy being around people and interacting. I have yet to meet a stranger; only folk who NEED a warm smile and a gentle WORD. Above everything else, I am a follower of Jesus Christ - my aim is to become a WHOLE man of GRACE & TRUTH. I have finally arrived at a new place in my life. While I love cities, I see myself moving to a place where I am simply NEAR a city [in a warmer place], but have regular, less obstructed access to HIS CREATION [preferably near mountains, rivers, lakes etc.] for the purpose of genuine reCREATION. Please NO Player's. For me, celibacy outside of marriage is a NON-Negotiable! I will know no other woman UNTIL/UNLESS I say 'I DO' again. Thank you for reading about me.

Simple Ukrainian-american boy:))) hard working, i like good freinds, honest people, and looking for The ONLY ONE - another part of me.

Im just looking to meet new people and make new friends right now. I enjoy going out with my friends and dancing and sports.