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emre is from United States

emre (28)

Live Your Life Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 22 for Romance / Dating

the name is emre i been living in america since 2001 im nationally turkish im 20 and im moslty in to ukranian girls cuz i think they really beatiful i love to play soccer beach is the favorite i live crazy so anything else u wana know ask me


Kevin is from United States

Kevin (33)

simple humble guy who appreciates... North Bergen, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 34 for Romance / Dating

I like to cook, eat delicious food, read, take nice long walks,listen to all kinds of music, appreciate the beauty of nature, travel when i have the energy and time, laugh at my self at any time of the day, a bit sarcastic, humorous, indulge in good things in life of course, i try to be polite and be understanding towards others whenever i can. I'm not very materialistic, and do not try to label things as they can sometimes be very limiting of its potential. I believe there can be love underneath anything anywhere at anytime.


William is from United States

William (57)

Ready to meet my true love/ life ... Trenton, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 54 for Romance / Dating

I love all kinds of music, particularly heavy metal, jazz and classical among many others. I love sports! Both watching and playing. I still play some basketball and I occasionally train with my sensei. I am well read, I follow politics, NPR, current events. I am a sensual lover . I work out regularly, weights, elliptical, jogging, stretching, . I take pride in my appearance and really respect a woman who does the same. As I see it, this is a whole new area for me. I look forward to this exciting adventure. It can be the greatest love of all, it may not. One thing for sure, I am looking forward to speaking with, and eventually meeting some very beautiful, smart, and attractive Chinese women. Life is beautiful!


Brian is from United States

Brian (64)

Seeking Life Partner for Love, Tr... Passaic, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 46 for Romance / Dating

I am well educated, well traveled, and well read. I am seeking someone to partner with me and who would be willing to relocate to the USA. The world is not so large now so making trips back home would not be that difficult. I am a Tibetan Buddhist practiconer and am a relaxed and laid back person. I enjoy my life but would love to have someone to share it with.. I have a BA and MA in English and am certified to teach English as a second language.

brian is from United States

brian (72)

Life is not complete without laug... Parsippany, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 60 for Romance / Dating

I am honest,compassionate, passionate, and loyal, was married for 42 years. I have been told that I am funny and like to have a good time, really life is to short. I am semi retired and would just like to meet someone to travel with and enjoy each others company.


Michael is from United States

Michael (53)

Honesty and integrity is what dr... Toms River, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 38 for Romance / Dating

I am currently on vacation in the Ukraine. Looking to find love and marriage then start a family. I am a very serious man looking for Ukrainian woman. If your not a serious woman or playing games please do not contact me and waste our times.


Bhargav is from United States

Bhargav (38)

Looking for serious relationship Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 34 for Romance / Dating

I am simple and well educated person. Working in pharmaceutical industry with respective position with very good salary. I am very strait forward. My friend opinion about me is very fun loving guy.....always make fun. I like sports, driving, reading, movie...etc. I am actively looking for relationship. Religion doesn't matter for me. I am try this site because I like Ukrainian girl.....Hope its work.


hi is from United States

hi (48)

hi I am not a member of this webs... Toms River, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 45 for Romance / Dating

I like seriousness in people, not childish behavior. No head games. No drama. If you are a mature and serious person and if you are someone who appreciates good people then talk to me. Мне нравится серьезность в людях, а не детское поведение. Нет


Jonathan is from United States

Jonathan (54)

I am looking for that special wom... New Brunswick, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 39 for Romance / Dating

Life is beautiful and I am very comfortable with who I am and where I am headed. I am passionate about travel, learning about others cutlures, love 80s pop music and rock especially but also classical, country, 50's doo wop, 70's , r and b and dance music too. I like to keep fit, I swim every day, enjoy biking, hiking, running, and love nature. I also enjoy ice hockey and spending time with friends...


Justin is from United States

Justin (38)

Impress me and I will visit withi... Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Romance / Dating

I'm looking to meet someone wonderful. I'm just a regular guy who works hard. I'm hoping to find happiness. A lot of people ask why am I on this site? Well, I have heard a lot of good things about women here are happy, supportive, beautiful and funny. If you think we could be a good match, please feel free t write me a message. 7 Ways to Start a Conversation by Justin 6/3/18: The majority of the people who write to me ask me "how are you doing", "hi", "what's up" or some version of that so I'm going to help you out by listing 7 alternative ways to start talking to someone. This is just based on my experience so feel free to let me know if these are crap or if you have some others to add. This will be in ascending order of effectiveness (in my opinion) 1. Weather: Example: "It's sunny out here today, what about you? How's the weather in New Jersey?" The quintessential standby. Everyone has weather so everyone can relate at least in some respect to this one. I will tell you, that it is very ineffective. The only reason it's on here is that it shows you took the time to see where I'm from. Use this sparingly or if the other person doesn't know good English. 2. Day of the week: Example: "Gosh, I can't believe it's Thursday already - the week is nearly over. Got any plans for the upcoming weekend" Annoying at best but will work in a pinch. One of my company bosses would open every single meeting with this. He literally never budged from the script. It's weak because it's boring and provides absolutely no insight (value) into your life. Just like the weather, it doesn't advance the conversation or cover any ground. Most importantly it makes the person you're talking to have to do all the work in crafting a creative response while you get away with offering nothing. 3. The interview question: Example: "What's life in the USA like? What is your favorite food? What kind of car do you drive?" These are one sided, seemingly out of the blue questions. There are several issues with this type of opener - first, it provides no context into your life. You're asking a question without providing any information about you, yourself. Second, it pits all the effort on the person you're asking to craft a meaningful response. Third, you're a complete stranger and you're asking me to open up to you. This question can be improved exponentially by simply offering a little about you first - some context - like this: "Life here in Anywhereland is boring because we live far from the city, but I fill my time by writing novels. What about you, what is life like in the USA?" 4. This or that: Example: "If you could live in Italy or France, which would you choose?" The question is thought provoking and shows some creativity and it has the added advantage of being easy to answer since it's multiple choice but again provides no context into your own life. Interpals has the word "inter" within it which is a prefix that means "mutual" suggesting that these exchanges should benefit both of us. (For all you smarties out there, yes, yes, I know inter probably refers to the international component of things, but just go with my poetic license will ya ;) 5. I need your advice/opinion: Example: "I just bought a new yorkie and she needs a name, got any good ideas?" This pits the effort on the reader so its value is lower but it also makes the reader feel good because you are seeking his or her help. Everyone wants to feel important and provide value to others. Asking someones advice or for their help is a good way to do that. 6. Comment on yours/describe mine: Example: "Your two dogs are totally adorable. They really seem to be affectionate. My dog, Piper, is a complete player. Unless I offer treats or walk outside, she just lays there like a lump on a log. What's your secret?" The trick is to say something about my profile first and then something in common with you and your life. Doing this shows you are interested in me and my life, and you have common ground with me so that we can relate. It's nearly the best kind of conversation starter there is! 7. The challenge: Example: You are a pretty neat guy, Justin. How did you get so good at gymnastics? Do you have any training secrets? My big talent is food critiquing. I go to restaurants, try their food and then write reviews for blogs. Tell you what, how about I teach you how to critique and you tell me the best way to learn a handstand? Sound like a fair trade? This may sound corny or cheesy, but think about what's going on here. You've described something about you and you've shown an interest in me and then you've bridged the two into common ground. Finally, you've suggested a construct for future conversation. There are elements of structure, reciprocity, mutual gain, and genuine interest at play here. This is the hallmark of good communication, don't you think?


Michael is from United States

Michael (46)

If life is a gamble then love is ... New Brunswick, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 40 for Romance / Dating

Creative, Friendly. Enjoys many types of activties sonwrite to me and find out. I I would love to learn a foreign language and I enjoy Russian a lot. I am doing this In the reverse because I want to live in Ukraine for a few years, having a pension will allow me to do this. So If you want to meet who is attractive and healthy but do want to leave your country, then please write to me. 3/1/2013....Wow it's 2013 I still get that cold feeling in my spine when I think of the year, where has all the time gone. I am planning on visiting Kiev Ukraine in early Sept-2013 for 2 months to learn Russian and hopefully I will meet some women on this site. Now I am getting my passport and saving some money to fly overthere...

Micahel is from United States

Micahel (47)

I am a real single man for a real... Hackensack, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 38 for Romance / Dating

I am a single, no kids, own a home, no pets, easy going guy that is still searching for a real, honest and open minded female for serious relationship. I have searched and find it harder and harder to find that person. I came back online to find her. My best friend is Russian, grew up around Russian food, people and I hope to find someone that I can connect with.

Mark is from United States

Mark (60)

Attractive and sincere man seeks ... Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49 for Romance / Dating

I am an attractive white male, 54 years old, divorced, with 3 young children. I do not smoke or do drugs, and drink a rare beer. I do not care for bars or clubs. Some of my interests include listening to jazz, playing chess, travel, reading, and working around my house on home improvement projects. I am something of a homebody; happiest when at home with family and friends.

Stephen is from United States

Stephen (37)

Looking for friends, maybe more Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40 for Romance / Dating

I'm by no means the perfect guy. I'm getting older and still single and getting sick of it. My work causes me to travel a lot and it makes building anything lasting a pain. That's not all bad though as my freedom is very important to me. I'm a hard worker and put my all into things, but tend to make all the wrong choices and decisions when it comes to love. I've rarely been the guy who sweeps a woman off her feet, but tend to be the dependable one that women come to when they've had their hearts broken by the person who did sweep them off their feet. I can be moody and am very cynical and jaded at times. While I grew up with a lot of traditional beliefs and values I do think for myself and am not as traditional as I first appear. What may be a deal breaker for many here is that I'm bisexual, but that doesn't mean I'm only out for sex. I over analyze everything and am my own worst critic. May seem a little wierd to those reading this stating my flaws, but figure it is best to be honest and open from the get go so there are no surprises. If you are still reading and can look past my areas that need improvement you'll find someone who is caring, hard working, and loyal to a fault. I'm often a serious lover preferring to take things slow and steady. You won't see me jumping into anything headfirst. I generally take relationships one step at a time. My words can be few, but my actions can speak volumes. I values deeds and will go to great lengths to express their affections through them. If after reading this you are still interested in getting to know me get in touch. After all anything is possible.


Mark is from United States

Mark (57)

Happiness is a choice we make Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50 for Romance / Dating

I am a kind and romantic soul. I play the piano to relax and my friends think I have a wicked good sense of humor . . .they must be right because they seem to know everything. I love the outdoors, quiet nights at home and the restaurants here at the shore. I'm confident, respectful, well educated and even housebroken! (my dog insisted upon it, she is a British lab, very proper). I practice law for a living but that does not define me and I don't take myself too seriously. I am not materialistic or judgmental. I don't care if you are a maid or a doctor, rich or poor, I'm looking for a loyal, nurturing and honest partner in life who wants to laugh, enjoy good conversation and would like to build a lasting relationship. I found this poem on someone's profile and it struck me as something that all those seeking a mate should read at least once while on the journey. It's called "The Invitation" It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes." It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments. and now on a lighter note: PUT THIS ON YOUR PROFILE IF YOU HAVE EVER WALKED INTO A SCREEN DOOR! l----*-*------l l--*-*-*-*---l l---\---/-------l l----\0/-------l l----(.)--------l l----/ \--------l l---/---\-------l l---------------l


TARAS is from United States

TARAS (57)

Looking for Miss right Vineland, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45 for Romance / Dating

Hi I'm a guy with simple taste. I am considered loyal, honest and funny. I stay active and go to the gym daily. I am in good shape and have a high energy level. I live by the Jersey Shore and like to go there a lot. I enjoy outdoor activities , such as fishing, camping , hiking, taking long walks on the beach. I like my music mostly rock and roll but like most all music. I'm a t-shirt and jeans type of guy, but do not mind dressing the occasion.

mike is from United States

mike (35)

hi Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32 for Romance / Dating

It's always so hard to fill out these things and introduce yourself in a little box with a few sentences. So to be short and to the point, I have a great sense of humor and I am very loving and loyal. I love life and my work and enjoy each day to the fullest. I like to travel and am also willing to travel to meet.


George is from United States

George (77)

Looking For A Permanent Relations... Wayne, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 55 for Romance / Dating

I'm a down to earth traditional & Christian gentleman. I don't play games & appreciate honesty. Women tell me I have "bedroom eyes", but I never took advantage of it, remaining loyal to my wife who passed away 3 years ago. I am a one woman man. There is no reason to cheat when there is a loving woman at home. My family is important to me. My sons are grown & have their own families now. I live in a suburban area of Northern New Jersey & own my own home. I enjoy the outdoors & used to go sailing, snorkeling & scuba diving, but an old back problem has slowed me down. I'm a student of alternative medicine. I extended the life of my Alaskan Malamute dog by over 1/3 using alt. med.. His veterinarian said he belonged in the Guiness Book of Records.


Vincent is from United States

Vincent (53)

Warrior Poet seeks his Soulmate Fort Lee, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 38 for Romance / Dating

I work for myself teaching Eastern ways of Life and Philosophy. I do Healing and Shamanic work, and also massage. I work with Native Peoples all over the world and cultivate a simple life. I am not interested so much in material things, but instead appreciate simpliciy, honesty, and the joy of being.I have a University education and a degree in Literature,and I also love to cook. I'm a very positive person and tend to view the world in a very optimistic manner. Even life's difficulties are potential challanges to help us grow... I love life, and am looking for a woman to share all of the joy and sorrow, laughter and tears together. To taste All the Sacred Wonder of this Existence, as One....


Vladimir is from United States

Vladimir (43)

Looking for Marriage Only Jersey City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 40 for Romance / Dating

I am an educated male from Eastern Europe living in the United States. People say that I am kind hearted, intelligent, honest and hardworking. In people I also value such traits as honesty, compassion, sincerity, kindness as well as family and moral values. Unfortunately in present age those values are rare. I love traveling, doing exercises, learning about new cultures and new things. I also love nature and everything that is natural!

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