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Stephen
39 Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
I'm by no means the perfect guy. I'm getting older and still single and getting sick of it. My work causes me to travel a lot and it makes building anything lasting a pain. That's not all bad though as my freedom is very important to me. I'm a hard worker and put my all into things, but tend to make all the wrong choices and decisions when it comes to love. I've rarely been the guy who sweeps a woman off her feet, but tend to be the dependable one that women come to when they've had their hearts broken by the person who did sweep them off their feet. I can be moody and am very cynical and jaded at times. While I grew up with a lot of traditional beliefs and values I do think for myself and am not as traditional as I first appear. What may be a deal breaker for many here is that I'm bisexual, but that doesn't mean I'm only out for sex. I over analyze everything and am my own worst critic. May seem a little wierd to those reading this stating my flaws, but figure it is best to be honest and open from the get go so there are no surprises. If you are still reading and can look past my areas that need improvement you'll find someone who is caring, hard working, and loyal to a fault. I'm often a serious lover preferring to take things slow and steady. You won't see me jumping into anything headfirst. I generally take relationships one step at a time. My words can be few, but my actions can speak volumes. I values deeds and will go to great lengths to express their affections through them. If after reading this you are still interested in getting to know me get in touch. After all anything is possible.
Mark
57 Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
I am a kind and romantic soul. I play the piano to relax and my friends think I have a wicked good sense of humor . . .they must be right because they seem to know everything. I love the outdoors, quiet nights at home and the restaurants here at the shore. I'm confident, respectful, well educated and even housebroken! (my dog insisted upon it, she is a British lab, very proper). I practice law for a living but that does not define me and I don't take myself too seriously. I am not materialistic or judgmental. I don't care if you are a maid or a doctor, rich or poor, I'm looking for a loyal, nurturing and honest partner in life who wants to laugh, enjoy good conversation and would like to build a lasting relationship. I found this poem on someone's profile and it struck me as something that all those seeking a mate should read at least once while on the journey. It's called "The Invitation" It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love for your dream for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon... I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain mine or your own without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful to be realistic to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence. I want to know if you can live with failure yours and mine and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes." It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children. It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away. I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments. and now on a lighter note: PUT THIS ON YOUR PROFILE IF YOU HAVE EVER WALKED INTO A SCREEN DOOR! l----*-*------l l--*-*-*-*---l l---\---/-------l l----\0/-------l l----(.)--------l l----/ \--------l l---/---\-------l l---------------l
Don
74 Cherry Hill, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 63

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