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ART.
57 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 52
Tim
69 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 66
Jayce
60 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 48
James
37 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
Rob
41 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
raul
44 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32
Danny
60 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 46
Dave
65 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 55 - 64
Josh
45 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Hello! My name is Josh. I would like to warn you that I have next to no idea what I am doing. I know that I am not here to take advantage of you, abuse you, mislead, manipulate, or hurt your feelings. I am seeking a very special girl to have a real relationship with. I was divorced in February of 2018 after a 15 year relationship. I have lost most of my friends. I am in a poor financial position. It has affected my self confidence and my sense of self considerably. My heart and my head no longer agree on a fair amount of things. It made me bitter and cynical, though I really do have hope for the future. I am still a passionate romantic, though now I am more shy, guarded, and less brave. Why the divorce? My then wife wanted to have children. When we got together in my early 20's, children was something I wanted. She did not. We almost did not get married because of it. I was planning on having children at 22. I would be 40 by the time my girl or boy was 18. I would have been young enough to play with them if they wanted me to, and be involved with their lives. All the way up until 32 I was fine with having children. When they turned 18 I would be 50 and that is not all that old. I could still do all those things with my child, or children. My wife was adamant against having children. So I let that part of me go. November of 2017 she changed her mind. The month right after our anniversary. She then decided that she wanted children and that she wanted a divorce. It was a shock. After 40, having children now would mean my kids would have to grow up with the stigma of having such an older parent. I would be in my 60's when they are an adult. I do not want my children to have to suffer being made fun of, bullied, or having their feelings hurt because of me. Or that I could not be there if something happened to them. It was one of my father's regrets that we did not get to do things like play catch, like my father did with his, as often as he would have liked. So on the positive side, it was not about money or how I treated her. If you have children, or want children in the future, I am not the man for you. I am not rich or even moderately well off. I could not buy you a flashy car or a large house. What I can do is give your heart a home where you would feel appreciated and loved for who you are. I am a hopeless romantic taking a long shot that maybe this is where I will find the girl of my dreams. Or maybe I am the man from yours? My passions run deep and I am rather hot blooded with definite ideas on what I like and how I like it. My preferences are not for everyone. I am neither conservative, nor a prude, although I seem both until you get to know me better. When I am in love, I enjoy the act. I do not care what other people would think. Only what you think. I have been told a few stories that have bothered me. My brother married a girl from China and she cheated on him, then divorced him as soon as she was an American citizen. I beg you, please do not do something like that to me. Please do not let me fall in love with you just so you can take advantage of me. Make certain you are interested in me for the relationship. I know I would be. I could not handle something like that on top of my recent experiences. I do not deserve to be treated like that. At least not yet. I think I am a good man only because I keep trying to be. I have made mistakes and hurt people just like anyone else. I try not to do those things. On the other hand, I would find it quite amusing if a gold digger came for me. I have no gold to dig for. There is something a friend of mine once discovered, that I think you should know and is very revealing about my character. I have a room in my mind, full of all the bad things I have done, things I feel guilty for, things I am ashamed of. After I wake up, every time, I look at all those things. I make myself remember, and feel, all over again. I dust those terrible things off, and put them back up one by one on the mantelpiece above the fireplace in that room of my mind. I do it because I want to be a better version of me than the one I was before I went to sleep. If you choose to write me, make it a long letter. Ask me anything you like. Even things you normally would not in a first letter. Be brave. Push your comfort zone. I may surprise you. And since I asked, I will not be offended, I did ask. I am not a paying member at the moment. So take your time when you write. And I do mean ask me anything. And if you choose not to write a letter, I will also not be offended. I will also inform you that I will put as much effort into my letter as you put into yours. Please also consider this a polite warning. Now I understand why everyone takes pictures in the bathroom, it tends to have the best light. I am looking into having a photographer friend of mine take some more pictures of me for you. It really does seem to me that the most beautiful, intelligent, passionate and romantic women in the world, come from your part of the world. I am not a paying member. I am sorry to inform you that at the moment it is simply too costly to get to know you better. I am in a very poor financial situation as a result of my divorce. I am serious about this though, so as soon as I am able, I will continue to get to know you.
Nate
43 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Jace
22 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
J
44 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 38 - 48
Agim
57 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 45
Duke
47 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 44
Casey
26 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33
Chet
52 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 47
Shawn
59 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 35
Rick
67 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 54
Bill
77 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 56
Ron
46 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 42
Matt
47 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 42
Matthew
33 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 35
Rich
48 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Michael
32 Boise, Idaho, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 29

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